This Friday we completed the second full week back to school which went fabulous, but it ended in a meeting that left me out of sorts. I allowed myself to become bitter and I brought the negativity home with me, which is never fun for my family.
I decided I needed to put a stop to it and take a moment to reflect on the more popular moments of the week that I’m thankful for. A strategy I recommend for anyone looking to turn their mood around!
- Celebrating McKinley’s Birthday…she is officially a teenager!
- Hearing Mick’s team (and the opposing team) sing Happy Birthday to her
- Soccer, soccer, and more soccer
- Cole’s Cross Country Meets
- Messages from former students
- Continuing to keep up with my blog
- Hearing all is healthy at my doctor’s appointment and listening to his heartbeat
- Some amazing students…nobody will ever see or understand those little moments that go on inside my classroom
- Surprise breakfast sandwich from my amazing co-worker
- Surprising one of our co-workers with a thoughtful gift who is a first time grandfather
- Everyone being able to SEE the baby kick…lil guy is active and strong
- Hearing my Grandfather on the phone…after his stroke I was unsure if he would recover and he is slowly, but surely making improvements! He is the most strong, stubborn, fighter I know!
- Going through baby names with Craig…always fun…he thinks it’s hilarious when I start yelling the name out like he’s in trouble or he’s about to score a goal…we have to know how it will sound, right?
- Apple Crisp with vanilla ice cream in bed…compliments of Craig
- Our first daycare tour…a gofundme page is coming soon…haha!
- Buying some more maternity clothes…having more options in the morning makes it more likely to have a positive start to the day
- Cole playing bass for homecoming
- Grandpa licking the container out of the Apple Crisp we brought him…haha
- Our first visit to Brighton Farmer’s Market–who doesn’t love live music, fresh food, beautiful weather, food trucks, plants, and holding hands with your man
- Snuggling with McKinley while she felt her lil brother kick
- Eating some amazing Italian food…Veal Parm is one of my favs!
- Cole going to his school dance
- Payday $$$$$
- A quick chat with a friend I haven’t talked to in a long time
- Healthy meals
- A man who wakes up early to make my lunch for work in the morning…all because he wants to…he even woke up extra early one morning this week to make egg salad for me
- Gramps feeling the baby kick again (to be honest I don’t think he was kicking at the time, but we will just let him believe he felt him)
- Receiving my Fabfitfun box…always fun when it comes
- The smell of the house as the turkey dinner is cooking
- Selling a couple items on Teachers Pay Teachers (who cares if I only made a dollar—still makes me happy)
Just a short list to remember all the wonderful moments from this past week. Next week will bring even more to be thankful for!
Share in a comment: What are you thankful for from this past week?
What Makes YOU Shine? What do you do to make life more enjoyable for others?
If you can’t think of what you do to uplift people then here are five simple suggestions.
- Greet People: Throughout the day make it a point to greet people…not only the people you perceive as important, but the people who may be unnoticed as well…even if they do not greet you back! A smile along with a “good morning” is simple enough. If you’re walking in the store hold the door for the next person—whoever they happen to be.
- Listen: Many people want to be heard, but it is also important to stop and listen (really listen) to others. I don’t mean listen to people ramble on and on, but to remember what they say. For example, remember what they will be doing over the weekend and ask them on Monday how their activity/plans went. As a teacher I also make it a point to do this with my students. As a parent, with my children. I even practice this when I’m interacting with cashiers at the store.
- Notice and Acknowledgement: When someone is doing something positive notice it and offer acknowledgement. This can mean noticing that your child completed a chore without needing to be asked and complimenting them, writing a note to a co-worker to say what a great job they are doing, or even sending an email to let a person know that you appreciate the extra effort they have been investing in a certain task.
- Share: Whatever your talent is or something you are good at…share it with others. This can be as simple as you make the best banana bread ever…then bring some to work to share or pass a loaf on to a neighbor. Do you have the skill to knit? Make a blanket and pass it on to someone…just start knitting and in the process you will realize who it is meant for.
- Thank: When is the last time you wrote a thank you note/card? Show appreciation even in the small things and make it a part of your routine to spend time writing a note to someone to thank them. It could be for something in the past that they did for you, a mentor, friend, relative, child, or even to a store to thank them for the great customer service!Comment: What makes YOU shine? Share with us something you do to make life more enjoyable for others.
Post inspired by the Daily Post prompt: “Shine”
I should be in the kitchen making pies at the moment, but a blog topic struck me and here I am! I want to challenge everyone to create a new tradition tomorrow and use it not only on Thanksgiving, but throughout the year as well. It is important for others to hear what we appreciate about them and it is important for people to reflect about what they appreciate about others. People may moan and groan at first, but the benefits are worth pushing them to the challenge.
Gratitude Dinner Game
When everyone is seated and ready to eat, announce that you will be playing a new game this year. Everyone will have to say one positive quality or a positive memory about the person sitting to the right (or left) of them. If your family is anything like mine you will need to explain the importance of being thankful for one another and ask for a volunteer to go first (or model a response yourself). Be prepared for laughter, fun, and even tears!
Gratitude Memory Page
Place a piece of scrapbook paper out and write “I am thankful for…” on it and ask family and friends to respond and sign it throughout the day. I also add one with, “Favorite Thanksgiving Dish” which is usually easier for people to respond to.
*this can also be used as a gratitude dinner journal that your family uses one a week/month or whenever you feel is best
Both of these can also be used for other holidays, birthdays, and family parties. This is a tradition we came up with one year and we love it! I have even used this in my classroom with students and had amazing results! It’s important to model to children (and adults) how to be grateful in life.
I am challenging you to play the dinner game and share your experience in a comment.
Happy Thanksgiving to all!