Thanksgiving is Thursday and what would it be without taking time to think about what we are thankful for. I could write a never-ending list of all the wonderful things God has blessed me with, but instead…
I decided to write a list of people who will be sitting at the table…
which one are you?
The host: Are you the one who hosts dinner? Does all the planning, preparation, cooking, decorating, table setting, and often times, the one who cleans up as well.
The cleaner: This one is not found at all tables, but when they are the host is much appreciative! They insist on helping to clear, rinse, pack up leftovers, and even wash and/or load the dish washer! They also usually offer to help set the table and lend a hand with anything else needed.
The eater: This one does not just eat, but they are the first to mound the plate of food, and begin seconds before grace is even said. They are often the first one to pass out on the couch after too!
The photographer: This one needs photos of everything…selfies with the food, the table setting, group shots, desserts…oh…just one more!
The story teller: There is always one person who has a story ready to share with everyone…sometimes its of a memory of a past family gathering, embarrassing moment, or just some off topic tale of their adventure hiking over the summer.
The gossiper: This one has the latest news about everyone in the family and is eager to share it with everyone. Usually this person is the social media junkie who repeats everything…”Did you see what Bob posted yesterday about Veronica?”
The one with the wild child: There is always one person with the small child who is in that stage where they are just plain irritating…we’ve all been there, so which one of you have the honor this year?
The eat and runner: This isn’t one who exercises after eating, but one who will eat dinner and then leave because they are avoiding any clean-up or interaction with others…I mean…leave because they have to stop at another family member’s home.
The aspiring politician: The one who is ready to stir up conversation on a controversial topic just to hear everyone debate. They are ready with several hooks to throw out for anyone willing to take the bait.
The sulky teen: We have all been that teenager at the Thanksgiving Day table at some point in our life…who is it this year?
With all the personality types Thanksgiving dinner usually comes together without any major issues, love is felt, laughter is heard, and memories are made ❤
Share in a comment: Which one are you sitting at the table or which one do you love most?
I wanted to provide an update for people because I’m incredibly excited that I have made it to three months and two days as a non-smoker! I joined the non-smoking club November 13th, 2016 after listening to a self-hypnosis video!
I’m not crazy…it really worked!! I wasn’t intentionally searching for a quit smoking video…I happened to stumble upon it and after reading the many comments from others stating how it worked for them, I thought why not give it a try. I listened to it before bed for a couple nights and have not smoked a cigarette since! The sound of Michael Sealey’s voice is calming which made me fall asleep rather quickly, so I didn’t even put much effort into listening. I was moody an evil demon for a couple weeks, but other than that I didn’t have any other side effects.
My past attempts were always a battle, but this time was different…much different. I’m still floored at how easy it was and wanted to share it with other people who may be struggling with this addiction.
Since I’ve quit I’ve noticed:
my skin is clearer and smoother
I feel healthier
I sleep better
my hair, skin, and clothes smell amazing
I quickly realized I smoked when I was bored…I now use that time to be productive
I save a ton of money!
Are you or do you know someone who is struggling with a smoking addiction? Share this post with them and give the video a try!
I was reminded this weekend how it is impossible to be positive all of the time…how there are days that hormones just take over and cause total destruction. I tried, tried pretty darn hard I’d say to keep positive, but I finally surrendered when I just couldn’t take it anymore.
Friday night wasn’t so bad…I watched some football movie on Netflix…Mark Wahlburg was in it and played some Eagles player…Invincible was the name of it. I was balling my eyes out…I immediately knew hormones were playing a factor because I don’t cry easily…well, except when you catch me this time of the month! I told myself ok, now the next couple of days are going to be great! This will be the month the moodiness will not visit! I feel fabulous, eating healthy, gym action going on…all will be good!
Then Bam…the switch was flipped! Dear boyfriend just doesn’t understand. My due date is even programed in his phone to make him aware of the days to leave me be, but for some strange reason he just doesn’t believe that it’s a real thing…the struggle is real!
What escalated the situation is my trip to McDonalds. I very rarely eat fast food, but I was feeling disgusting, skipped the gym, and decided I wanted hotcakes! Why do they call them that—they are pancakes! I can’t even tell you the last time I ate McDonalds, but all I know is I wanted pancakes with hash browns….ohhh and I tossed on an order of nuggets too to add to the misery! I asked for syrup to dip the nuggets in, but she told me I couldn’t substitute that, so I ordered an extra–no big deal–I wanted an extra syrup…period! haha..pun not intended! Well, of course I get home, set everything up to chow down and find out there is no extra syrup! Holy flames and f-bombs Batman! Out of all the days to screw up my order this was the worst!
The remainder of my night was spent doing my laundry (folding laundry is quite calming), watching Netflix, eating a Skor candy bar, uploading pictures to Facebook, and slowly coming down off that evil estrogen spike as I write this blog post…see, writing can be therapeutic!
Pray for my students tomorrow…better yet, pray for a snow day!
A fun project my students and I worked on was to create a soundtrack of songs that immediately put you in a positive mood. Students have a host of struggles which spill over in their academics, and since they enjoy listening to music I challenged them to create a list they can turn to or should I say, turn up (ha…see the puns there) if they feel a bad mood creeping in.
Ohhh…one more rule was that the artist had to be African American (or write lyrics touching on African American issues) because I currently teach African American Literature and this was a way I could incorporate additional learning.
I have found starting class off with a positive song improves the environment of the classroom…this is not always an easy task as I teach in an inner city school. (Students are ages 16-21).
Have you heard? What we put in our bodies affects us—we have the power to decide if that is for the positive or the negative. We discussed that when we are in a bad mood we tend to gravitate to and listen to music that makes us even more angry and upset. Being mindful about what you are listening to can change that.
We all tremble inside at the thought of something…what is it that you fear? Is it beginning something new? Starting over? A career choice? Going back to school? Traveling? Trying a new workout at the gym (who is possibly afraid of this right…yup…yours truly)? Public speaking? Initiating a conversation? Starting a blog? Change?
Whatever it is…step outside of your comfort zone and fly! It will build a stronger you, a sharper you, and a more confident you! You will grow in more ways than you can imagine. Picture your life after overcoming the fear? What will your life look like then?
Divorce: I’m beyond excited to announce that I received a the final paper back in the mail Friday that I needed signed to move forward with the divorce. I have one more step and then I can re-submit them to the court which will most likely be in the next week or two if all goes according to plan. I found out the mail accidentally sent the envelope to another address which happens quite frequently for some reason, and then it was returned and took much longer than it should to arrive. I’m just thankful I finally received it! Positive start to my weekend for sure!
Love: I came home from work on Friday to find a thoughtful surprise from my boyfriend. He has been working a lot of overtime lately, so we haven’t had much time to spend together–he crafted a delicious healthy dinner and planned out a Saturday date day. He knows how much I’ve been stressing as I wait for the paperwork. This was much needed for us!
Fitness: I’ve been consistent with my workouts, routine, and eating healthy. I haven’t ventured out to try new machines like I’ve wanted, but I will. I did reach out to a couple people for some advice and one will be helping me out this week. I am feeling and seeing the results which motivates me even more. Next step…add some weights to the mix!
Rochester Public Market: Saturday morning haul…only spent $23 in produce and $10 on the roasted nuts! Who said eating healthy is expensive?!?!
Fun: Made a visit to Rick’s Recycled Books to add to my already lofty stack of books begging to be read. Highlight was Craig finding one he liked that happened to be autographed!
We drove to Mendon Ponds Park to take some wintery shots. I wanted to stay out longer, but I wasn’t quite layered up enough to keep warm. I did stay long enough to stumble on quite a bit of these little ones…moments like this is pure happiness!
As Sunday night comes to an end I’m finishing up the last half of the Super Bowl…and the commercials of course.
Ready for another fabulous week to begin tomorrow!
Are you looking to change your eating habits? In my attempt to eat healthier this is my go-to weekend breakfast. This recipe is simple to make and they come out tasting yummmmayyyy—even better than other pancake recipes. They are quite filling too! You must give these a try and let me know what you think!
Banana Oat Pancakes
1/2 cup rolled oats
1/2 teaspoon baking powder
pinch of salt
Mix everything in a blender, let the batter sit for a about 20-30 minutes, and then cook. I like them with strawberries on top or real maple syrup! Enjoy!